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Does Stress Make You Into a Fire-breathing Dragon?
Be honest, don’t you get irritated when you’re stressed out, and a friend, parent or partner tells us to take a deep breath or count to ten?
Actually it does work, you know.
At some point of time each one of us has done the deep breathing or counting to ten or even twenty before blowing off steam like Fred Flintstone.
Unless one is having a bout of asthma or is wheezing after climbing 3 flights of stairs in poor health, and other breathless activities, we often don’t pay much attention to it.
Apart from keeping us alive, proper breathing is essential when exercising, doing yoga or preparing for meditation. Proper breathing provides adequate amounts of oxygen to the body reducing the fight or flight response when faced with stress or panic.
For any practitioner of meditation, the first step is to strengthen the connection between mind and body.
The first stage of meditation is to remove distractions and make your mind clear and calm. This can be accomplished by practicing a simple breathing exercise.
Simple breathing exercise to clear your mind of distractions
The nutshell version of the breath exercise:
The detailed version of the breathing exercise
First select a quiet place to meditate and sit in a comfortable position. You can sit in the traditional cross-legged posture or in any other position that is comfortable. If you wish, sit in a chair. The important thing is to be comfortable.
Make the experience more enjoyable by creating an atmosphere conducive for meditation by lighting incense or using an aroma burner with your favorite aroma oil.
Sit with your eyes closed and focus your attention on your breathing. Breathe naturally, through the nostrils and out of the mouth.
Do not try to control your breath. Focus on the sensations you feel as the breath enters and leaves your body. This sensation is your object of meditation.
In the beginning you might find your mind wandering off in which case gently bring your focus back to your breathing. Repeat this as many times as necessary until the mind settles and focuses on the breath. Followed regularly, you will start to feel rejuvenated.
Don’t be surprised if you start to fall asleep after the meditation.
It is your body’s way of telling you that there has been too much stress and emotions bottled up and with the release comes relaxation.
You will notice that your thinking becomes clearer and more capable of handling stressors without resorting to the deep breath technique. This is something that I noticed in the early days of practicing Transcendental Meditation.
Even though breathing meditation is only a preliminary stage of meditation, it can be quite powerful.
Do you practice meditation or do breathing exercises? What difference has it made to your health and general well-being?
To know more about meditation as a tool for stress management, please click on the Link to read my post titled Meditation as a Tool for Stress Management.
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Written by: Vatsala Shukla
Vatsala is a dynamic professional with a human touch. She was instrumental in assisting me through a challenging phase a year ago and I still put to use the techniques she generously shared for ensuring personal well-being in the humdrum of life. I wish her the best.
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Stopping to take a breath is so important as needed. It can give you a moment to think and to release any stress or negativity you feel and give you a moment to just be. Meditation is helpful to me in many ways it not only relaxes the mind and body but I like to pray before I meditate many times and allow my mind and body to absorb my thoughts as they reach out to my higher self and the divine as well as within. Brings me peace and clarity.
That’s a lovely practice, Heather. Thank you for sharing it. I like to do grounding exercises before meditation to keep me focused.
Love this topic Vatsala! Its a needed one too 🙂 Stress is the number one trigger for so many physical and emotional diseases today. Management with something as simple as breath is information all need to be aware of.
I agree with you Zeenat. I’ve had colleagues turn diabetic with no family history of the condition thanks to stress and friends who’ve had heart attacks because they allowed work overloads and the related stress to take control of their lives. Self-care and nurturing mental wellness is important.
Just recently saw a video about people that have used breath work to master physical pain as well as stress. It’s amazing stuff!
It absolutely is, Barb. If you get a chance, you must read or watch Jonathan Goldman’s works on humming for pain and health management. I have tried it and breath work with humming does provide relief.
I incorporate meditation every day as well as mindfulness meditation. Although, I understand your analogy with fire breathing dragon, I sometimes call in the fire breathing dragon to empower me, shield me, guide me, to give me strength and burn away any obstacles stuck in the mind and body.
Everyone should learn to meditate. Thank you for sharing this with us.
I fully understand using the assistance of the fire breathing dragon in meditation, Laura. I use the Violet Flame meditation to achieve a similar result. Thanks for sharing your wisdom.