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Meditation Checklist – How to prevent your dark side from emerging

 

What to do if meditation is causing discomfort or fear

 

If you’re a regular visitor to The Karmic Ally Coaching Experience Blog, you would agree that I am an enthusiastic advocate of meditation, chakra balance and yoga for stress management. Yet I am careful and cautious in my suggestions based on the individual’s personality and needs. There are boundaries that should not be crossed and if I feel that it may aggravate the condition or may not help, then I keep quiet or suggest an alternative method to give results.  Quite simply, one size does not fit all.

 

When Meditation Goes Wrong – Big Time

My stand is based on my own personal experience in relation to a particular type of patented meditation technique which has benefited me immensely and still does though there are periods when I stop meditating because I start to feel spiritually fried or internally cold. Both these conditions are caused when there is an excess of spiritual energy or excessive awakening of the Kundalini. I had also started to experience anxiety when there was no need to feel anxious.

In the early days of my meditation journey when I first started to experience these symptoms, my auditor mind said I needed some information. I spoke to my instructor and asked for an explanation which was not forthcoming. Instead I was told to ignore it and continue meditating for extra periods of time. Instinctively I did the reverse and stopped meditating for a month. When I resumed my meditation, I was in control again and now follow a practice better suited to my constitution and temperament.

It would be many years later that I would find out while engaging in small talk with a guest whom my sister and brother-in-law had invited for dinner during my visit to Copenhagen, that this particular meditation technique had been popular in treating patients with mental health problems in Denmark until they started committing suicide in hospitals.

I only have this guest’s word for it but more research indicated that there was a known side effect of this form of meditation which included chronic dissociation and significantly increasing a phenomenon known as relaxation induced anxiety.  That rang a serious bell in my mind as I remembered my conversation with my old teacher and I decided that while I loved meditation, there had to be a better way and one that was right for me.

Then I chanced upon a book at my favorite Khan Market book shop by the modern mystic Master Del Pe titled Hidden Dangers of Meditation and Yoga: How to play with your Sacred Fires Safely and it all fell into place. (This is a book that I highly recommend you read if you are into meditation and yoga to know and understand these practices at a deeper level)

 

 

I had completely forgotten about this until a recent phone call from someone who is close to me who had a similar experience after a full day course on a different type of Meditation style and was experiencing agitation, insomnia and anxiety attacks when the circumstances in her life were peaceful.

My intuition said her upper chakras had become over-active and balancing was required. Like a doctor, I gave her a prescription and for the next few days did follow- ups. Things worked out and all is well. One of the exercises that I taught her was to transfer the excess energy into her Tan T’ien or Dantien energy area.  You can learn more about it by clicking on the image below ( a new window will open on your browser).

 

The practice of Tan T'ien or Dantien to store extra meditation generated energy

 

Since I am not the only one who has had this experience (there are many other cases that I know of in my Inner Circle of friends who’ve had similar experiences, this post is dedicated to a checklist for meditation. I still meditate for relaxation, stress management and to balance my chakras but there are certain do’s and don’ts which I feel every reader who is interested in these tools needs to be aware of.

 

Guarantee Yourself a Blissful Meditation Experience

For clarity, I’ve divided this checklist into 2 sections – before joining a meditation course and first actions if discomfort starts post meditation.

 

Intuitively I felt that her upper chakras had become over-active and balancing was required. Like a doctor, I gave her a prescription and for the next few days did follow- ups. Things worked out and all is well.   This post is dedicated to a checklist for meditation both before you practice and if things go wonky.

Guarantee yourself a blissful meditation experience

What you need to do before joining a Meditation Course

  • Be clear about what you want to achieve with meditation.
  • Do your research carefully about the course. There are many types of meditation – Zen, Transcendental, Mindfulness and more. Read more about the style, benefits, mode of delivery and just about anything that you can find about the meditation.
  • Do your research about the organization offering the instruction. Are they accredited? Do they have a website? Are they willing to share the details of satisfied clients and allow you to talk to these clients?
  • Check out the credentials of the instructor. How long has the instructor being guiding people into the art of meditation? What training does the instructor have? Can you speak to the instructor pre-enrollment?
  • What is the mode of delivery of the meditation course? Does it suit you? If it is online, then does the course also provide for direct communication with an instructor?

Talk to friends or associates about the meditation techniques if any, that they use.

 

Bottom line: Make an informed decision.

 

 What To Do If You Feel Discomfort Post Meditation?

Discomfort can mean anything. It can include paranoia, hallucination, strange combination of physical and psychological problems, insomnia, clumsiness, indecisiveness, agitation, feeling tired or drained out to name a few. 

This discomfort can happen either during or after the first session or even later into the course. One reason that I can offer is that meditation focuses on the higher chakras. It can also awaken the kundalini and activate the higher chakras while the lower chakras remain closed or under-active.

 Meditating for stress management does not exclude other activities like exercises to keep the body physically fit and the lower chakras balanced.  I cover those in my ebook Stress Management with Chakra Balancing Exercises .  Please click the preceding link or the image below to learn more. A new window will open on your browser.
Stress management with Chakra Balancing Exercises Guide

 

It is always a good idea to have some readily available solutions for these situations. Here are a few to keep in your first-aid box

  • Stop the meditation practice. This will enable you to ground back and adjust your internal and external conditions. 
  •  Study and analyze which practice has created the situation and avoid it.
  •  Start doing grounding exercises to strengthen your will-power and connection to the Earth.
  •  Increase your physical activity to further strengthen your Root Chakra. Take your pick, it could be going to the gym, doing housework, lifting weights or even stamping your feet!
  •  Avoid negative people and negative talk. You might have become more sensitive and need time to build up your defenses.
  •   Increase the intake of protein and minerals in your diet.
  •   Avoid pranayam or any breath holding practice for a while. Instead, do alternative nostril breathing to balance your energies.
  •  Communicate with people whom you know to be grounded and focus instead on your goals in the real world with new and deliberate intent.
  •  Drink lots of water and avoid alcohol or other stimulating beverages for some time. Take it a step further while bathing. As the water falls off your body, keep telling yourself, “I am washing away any negativity that I have picked up during the day, I am becoming whole again”.
  •  If you have been taught Mudras (hand gestures) for meditation and still wish to use them when you start to meditate again, then change them to a simple one where the thumbs do not connect with any of the fingers but instead the hands are placed on top of each other. This Mudra helps when you just want to relax or just let go. They are called Bhairava (right hand is on top of the left) and Bhairavi (left hand is on top of the right) Mudras for relaxing meditation.
  •  Release your excess spiritual energy and direct it to a good cause. With palms open, visualize the recipient(s) of your blessing with the gentle intention to let the energy flow out of your hands towards your target.


While the above techniques will help, it is always a good idea to do one’s research first and then enter the realm of meditation. Make your experience a sublime one, not a nightmare.

Have you experienced any undesired side effects of meditation? How did you handle it? Please do share in the comments box below!

 

 

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UPDATE: This blog post was originally written in August 2012 and has been updated in May 2016 for new content and relevance.

Written By: Vatsala Shukla

Photo credit: Meditation by VivitoArt and Vatsala

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21 Responses to “Meditation Checklist – How to prevent your dark side from emerging”

  1. Tamuria says:

    People don’t always realise there can be negative side effects to meditation and how to deal with them. Your advice is so helpful. It really is important to know which style of meditation will be the most helpful, and to have excellent guidance.Grounding exercises are vital too as you can become more vulnerable. Great advice here.

    • Karmic Ally says:

      Too much of a good thing is never good, Tamuria, and that holds for meditation which is a powerful stress management tool. I’ve learned that from experience and like to know of the credentials of the teacher before learning any new style of meditation. Don’t want to get spiritually fried. 🙂

  2. I don’t meditate yet, but am so pleased you covered things to consider before joining a meditation course. Also important to know about different cautions & remedies if anxiety occurs.

    • Karmic Ally says:

      Meditation is a wonderful tool for stress management as well as for overall good health but just as all 5 fingers on a hand are not the same, Roslyn, different meditations have different qualities. My concern is that there are 2 that are heavily promoted by trainers which have the tendency to send chakras out of whack and create anxiety but the trainer or teacher may not be very adept at handling the student’s situation. This intention of this post was to raise awareness of the research to be done before starting a meditation program and some quick remedies for relief. Del Pe’s book deals with each situation in depth.

  3. Tamuria says:

    Reading this the second time the words “relaxation induced anxiety” really stand out. It is horrifying to think that something that is supposed to give you calm and centre you could actually cause a mental problem. The advice you give to be wary, Vatsala, is so important.

    • Karmic Ally says:

      I’m happy you found more information during your second reading of this post, Tamuria. Meditation is supposed to reduce anxiety and stress but a lot depends upon the type of meditation you do. For example, mindfulness meditation doesn’t work for every one. A simpler candle meditation or focusing on breathing with visualization may be a better choice.

  4. Wow! I have taken a mindfulness meditation course As well as the Chopra meditation challenges for years. I also did a kundalini course, and that one was different. I did not realize that some people can respond adversely to different forms of meditation. Maybe that’s why some people don’t stick with it. Great info, thanks!

    • Karmic Ally says:

      The Kundalini course should only be done under the tutelage of an adept Master, Kimberly, because there are changes in the body when the Sacred Fire rises upwards. Even Jiddu Krishnamurti who was geared to be the new World Teacher by the Theosophical Society led by Dr Annie Besant experienced extreme reaction s when his Kundalini awoke.

      Quite possibly the drop outs experienced discomfort and felt that stopping the practice was their best and only option.

    • Karmic Ally says:

      The Kundalini course should only be done under the tutelage of an adept Master, Kimberly, because there are changes in the body when the Sacred Fire rises upwards. Even Jiddu Krishnamurti who was geared to be the new World Teacher by the Theosophical Society led by Dr Annie Besant experienced extreme reaction s when his Kundalini awoke.

      Quite possibly the drop outs experienced discomfort and felt that stopping the practice was their best and only option.

  5. Reba Linker says:

    Anything that is powerful is just that, powerful. Like fire, or water, or any other powerful force, the power of meditation needs to be directed, channeled and supported. This is such an important post, Vatsala. Thank you! xo, Reba

    • Karmic Ally says:

      I love the way you manage to summarize the gist of my message with eloquence, Reba! The power of meditation has to be understood and more importantly, the right meditation technique and method.

  6. People constantly tell me I should meditate. I’ve tried different forms and find that my personality type and my constitution, are better suited for active meditation. Things like walking and watching the clouds. Each time I’ve tried to do a course of mediation, I find it agitates me and I feel irritated. People say to stick with it. I sign up for the Deepak and Oprah 21-day series and sometimes start, but can’t seem to stay with it. I read Dan Harris’ book “10% Happier” and really loved reading about his journey with mindfulness mediation and the challenges he encountered along his “research” path. I love this post, Vatsala and thank you for pointing out how there is no one size fits all for all things in life, including meditation. This makes me feel better about my seeming inability to meditate in the ways other people seem to find ease. I will continue being highly aware of myself and what works for me. As you know, trusting my intuition has gotten me this far…so I will continue trusting myself to find my way. Thanks for all the wonderful insights in this post!

    • Karmic Ally says:

      Meditation has different meanings for different people, Beverley and in your case, active meditation is the one that works. I know a lady who is fond of gardening and for her, spending time in nature is true meditation. The fact that you’ve noticed an increase in agitation and irritability when you practice a meditation course is a clear sign that it isn’t the right form of meditation for you. Trust your intuition. As you rightly said, it has gotten you this far and I know it will take your further. Your Life Purpose is yet to completely manifest.

  7. Huh. Interesting. I use a right hand on top of left mudra often when meditation; learned it years ago and find it very grounding. Sometimes I have my thumbs touching, Sometimes my left thumb rests touching the inside right palm. Never read about that before. Don’t know if my body and nervous system could do the left over right, but now I think I’ll try it!

    • Karmic Ally says:

      It seems that your body adjusts itself to your needs when you meditate Sue, through the chosen Mudra. Each Mudra creates different vibrations and benefits. Would love to know if the change in hand placement makes a difference.

  8. Natasha Botkin says:

    Like that you took a moment to discover what you needed and stepped away for a bit. When I began to “meditate” the cold stone sit there did not work for me. I have found ways that sometimes I need walking meditations and such. xoxo

    • Karmic Ally says:

      Quite often the mind needs a distraction and activity instead of sitting in silence, Natasha. Some of us are better suited for more active or physical forms of meditation. I’m intrigued about having to sit on a cold stone for meditating. That would distract anyone. 🙂

  9. Suzie Cheel says:

    Yes I understand that there can be negative sides to meditation, not something I have experiencec often. Although this post brought back to a meditation day i went to many years ago and Ileft never wanting to use that method again xx

    • Karmic Ally says:

      Its amazing how our intuition and Inner Guide prompts us to not try a meditation for the sake of self-preservation. I’m glad you never tried that one again Suzie and have stayed with the ones that help you.

  10. Joyce Hansen says:

    Thank you Vatsala for providing a meditation checklist. There’s a tendency to jump into the things like meditation and expect results shortly. This is a process the body and spiritual energy needs to make adjustments to over time. I’m glad that you’ve mentioned the grounding part as this is very important. Also, there’s the tendency to focus on the breathwork only during meditation, while most people then revert back to shallow breathing for the rest of the day. I try to remain aware of my breath throughout the day and slow the breath down and breathe fully and as relaxed as possible. This gives me the energy I need. This is a wonderful article which I will be bookmarking

    • Karmic Ally says:

      Slow and steady wins the race, Joyce. I often do pranayam when I feel my energy levels waning and that works as a treat. Focusing on breath work even outside of meditation. It reminds me of my school days when one of our teachers would tell us to stop slouching and for those few moments, every girl would straighten her back. Fortunately we got conditioned to maintaining a straight back. I feel the same is required even for breath work and meditation.

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